Seeks to express the need for identification in a sensitive and intimate atmosphere where esthetic or emotional delicacy can be protected and nurtured
Stress Sources:
The existing situation is disagreeable. Feels lonely and uncertain as she has an unsatisfied need to ally herself with others whose standards are as high as her own, and wants to stand out from the rank and file. This sense of isolation magnifies the need into a compelling urge, all the more upsetting to her self-sufficiency because of the restraint she normally imposes on herself. Since she wants to demonstrate the unique quality of her own character, she tries to suppress this need for others and affects an attitude of unconcerned self-reliance to conceal her fear of inadequacy, treating those who criticize her behavior with contempt. However, beneath this assumption of indifference she really longs for the approval and esteem of others.
Restrained Characteristics:
Feels cut off and unhappy because of the difficulty in achieving the essential degree of cooperation and harmony which she desires.
Circumstances are restrictive and hampering, forcing her to forgo all joys and pleasures for the time being
Desired Objective:
Feels the existing circumstances are hostile and is exhausted by conflict and quarreling. Wishes to protect herself and hides her intentions to avoid exposing them to attack, so that they will be safer and easier to achieve. Careful to avoid stirring up any opposition which might endanger her plans.
Actual Problem:
1) Disappointment at the non-fulfillment of her hopes and the fear that to formulate fresh goals will only lead to further setbacks have resulted in considerable anxiety. She tries to escape from this by withdrawing and protecting herself with an attitude of cautious reserve. Moody and depressed.
2)The unsatisfied desire to be respected, to stand out from amongst her friends, is causing some anxiety. As a result, normal gregariousness is suppressed and she refuses to allow herself to become involved, or to participate with others in their ordinary activities.
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Resutls from : http://www.colorquiz.com/ Whisk 'n' Bake Personal Nook 7/25/2003 11:43:00 PM
Tuesday, July 22, 2003
Ride (Right)
Made out of your own device
Holding on to it so tight
Half the distance,
takes you twice as long,
Or maybe even thrice.
The empty page, with a frozen pen
Both the cold and small, it all ooze back in.
After the thrill is gone,
Losing all your highs and lows.
Ain't it funny how the feeling goes away.
Fever's at the end,
Cooling waters please mark your stand.
Ride your days,
write your story,
or gamble your life
Stop my mind from wondering
whats left behind.
keep worrying
about this wasted time
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There are so many contridictions
In all these messages we send
(We keep asking)
How do I get out of here
Where do I fit in?
Though the world is torn and shaken
Even if your heart is breakin'
It's waiting for you to awaken
And someday you will-
Learn to be still
[Learn to be still] Whisk 'n' Bake Personal Nook 7/22/2003 07:54:00 PM
